I think the more important question is: What does your partner consider to be cheating? My wife get upset if I talk to any girl I ever dated, even if they were just fuck-buddies...(especially if they were fuck-buddies!) I think it mainly pertains to thinking... "What would my s/o think if she found out?" Along those lines of thought, I'm dead if she evers finds out about Pixies!

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In memory of my friend skip...
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