I agree with MisX, partners need to be up front with eachother.
In my case my wife doesn't go for anything but looking and talking. as she says; "Look, but don't touch. I know you'll look, and when you stop looking i'll burry you 'cause you'd be dead".
She'll never get on Pixies and joke around like we do, it's not her thing, but you should see the way she licks an icecream cone when she knows some guy is looking...

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