You have to understand what is going on before you can deal with it.

If you (both) fell in love with this wonderful, childfree, lustful relationship,

it's natural that changing the field markings has confused you.

If loss of your freedom (the shackles of children) has upset you to

the point of not wanting to stay in the marriage, then you need to assess

what's truly important.

You need to commit the mortal sin of communication.

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