I am one of the lucky ones!!

I have found the love of my life, and have a very special relationship with him. We were best friends before we got together, and still are after 9 years of being committed.
While we are committed to each other, we have an open relationship and we swing as well.
We understand the limits as we have set them. We never feel we are cheating.. as long as there is not an emotional bond with another person.
Physical intimacy I can deal with. Emotional... no way!! We both feel we couldn't deal with that. I wouldn't want him emotionally involved with someone else. To care about them the way he does about me. To share what we share.

Anything that is done in secret is cheating.

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If you won't listen to reason, there's always... Towanda!... Kathy Bates~Fried Green Tomatoes