Lilith is very close to the heart of it. You must both make time for date night or whatever you want to call it but it is time for you both to re-affirm your relationship. Don't go to movies but rather dates where you can talk and share.

My wife and I have failed to keep the bond and are getting ready to call it quits. Over time we did not connect and slowly but surely we lost our way. We have been to therapy and I have gone for myself. She has suffered post partum depression and it set off a similar depression in me. I'm back from it but she is still fighting it 11 years later. The resultant uncontrolled anger has created hurt that cannot be forgiven easily and we both feel that sparing the children the discomfort of seeing us attack each other is very important.

I regret we did not have the resources to solve our problems and my counsel to you is to give it everything you have to rekindle the flames and make it work. Good luck, my friend.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours