I have been the tie-ee on almost every occasion. Scarves, ropes, pantyhose, and just self-restraint to list a few of my experiences as the tie-ee.

I can only remember being the tie-er at one or two of my many trips into the realm of what I would call a minor S&M. I don't think I could ever go down the hardcore road.

I think I like to be the tie-ee more than the tie-er, but I think I need to try being a tie-er a few more times before I make up my mind.