Kathy thanks for the insight. In some odd way I sort of understand that. My Dad was involved in AA for several years and through some of the talks we had I gathered some pretty useful insight about similar situations. Even with some slight undertstanding it wrenches me to be so useless. I'll be there for her in a minute. I gave her my phone number and told her just call if you need help. I just hope she sees the light soon.

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