I'm pretty happy to see a "I like to get it rough on occasion" contingent here.

I don't think there's a man alive who hasn't wanted to 'caveman' his girl at some point, ever. By that I mean simply take her, au naturel, without giving her any notice or asking any consent whatsoever, before or during.

My last girlfriend was quite the proponent of womens rights, yet far from throwing the feminist book at me, gave me a hug and a long, lingering kiss after our first caveman/cavewoman session. I had gone round to her house, and once inside, I slammed her back into a wall, kissed her forcefully, and simply forced her tongue to submit to mine in an oral joust while I ripped off her clothes, literally tearing them in half/thirds etc before simply forcing myself into her.

Man, to read it sounds awfully close to a non-consensual thing, but trust me, for BOTH of us it was a beautiful event; I felt closer to her than ever before, yes indeed there was a feeling I'd gained some kind of ascendancy of authority in our relationship, but each felt MUCH more keenly about the wellbeing of the other than before. Nor were her principles even scratched; she was as independant as before, but she enjoyed the experience, and asked to be surprised again asap.

Jaybee