"I'm a southerner (and proud of it), and I was taught that women should be ladies. I still stick with this." (Cherrypie7788)

I got a soft spot for all you Southern Belles, its too bad that many consider me a Yankie (HAHA!).

And there it is again, it is what society makes for us our roles. I can understand the need to playing ones cards close to the vest for women to be sure that a prospective partner is "safe". More so I respect that. I am just of the mind that to dare to be bold--it could be wonderful or not. But then I believe that you only live this life but once; to eat, drink and be merry for tomarrow we die is a motto that holds meaning for me--though such a motto isn't for everyone