Before I got my S/O we spent our time talking about stuff. It was when neither of us was looking for anyone that it actually occurred to us that we wanted to be with each other. So my point is this : try to get to know a few people, dont push too hard, and especially dont judge based on looks alone - personality is more important than physical appearances.

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Wow... Funny isn't it? How you think Love has finally found you..... But at a whim it withers and blows away...