I paint my penis orange.

I also cook, and clean, and take care of my family. Not because I have to but because I want to. I do it because it needs to be done and who am I to sit back and wait for Mrs. WI to do it? When I get up to pour a drink of water...I ask her if she's thirsty. When I see her getting ready for a shower, I double check that there's soap and a fresh towel before leering at her . And when she's sitting around naked, I get turned on. Every damn time. Regardless of what she thinks of her own body.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.