Love is about being best friends,

its much more than sex, though sex is a part, love is being there thru tough times, doing the washing, giving your partner a nite out, enjoying all of the best and worst, loving the unappealing bits and it is so fragile and just so, so easy to damage,

for me its constantly listening to her job problems, understanding when she has a headache, hot waterbottle and duvet when its a tough period, tea and chocolate, opening a door for her, taking out the trash, being me..

sex is just one way of being open and vulnerable

good luck

wildeye