I let my hubby shave me, the first time was nerveracking, we both were nervous. But it has gotten better. This way if he complains cause I didn't shave or something i can tell him to do it himself. He lets me shave him too so it's all fair. Neither one has cut the other, and it is very erotic. He has helped me on occasions where I nicked myself and gave up after i got most of it, He went down there carefully and finished it for me! We both agree that he shaves me smoother and vice versa. He can see the stray hairs rather than me guessing where they are.