It's very difficult to bring me to an orgasm with a handjob. There needs to be a lot of dirty talk and some boobies.

I rarely am able to have an orgasm resulting from fellatio unless I'm laying on my back and Mrs. WI is laying between my legs.

As far as intercourse goes, I've been able to climax in each position we've tried but the one that gives me the most trouble has her on her back and me on my left side. Her left leg is between both of my legs and her right leg is up and over my hip. In this position, I can use my left hand to rub her and my right hand to stimulate her clitoris. She orgasms with no problem, but as good as it feels...it just takes a lot of effort and concentration.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.