John Grey (the Mars/Venus dude) once said in an interview for Playboy that he believes masturbating takes intimacy from a relationship but how am I supposed to believe a guy that was celibate for 13 years before he got married and turned into a sex expert? ha ha

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.