A good blow job is definitely an art form. you hafta work the whole package. Explore with the tongue, mix it up... user yer fingers and tits to tease it, too. Just like a gal's not likely to cum if you just do the same damn motion constantly, a gal's gotta be constantly working my cock different ways. I nearly died the first time I felt a gal's tongue go exploring around my balls. And that lil bit of flesh behind em? I never knew I had a spot so sensitive I couldn't bear for her to keep on it!

Now looking at handjobs... sure I've cum to em... but it doesn't have the same psychological connotations as the blowjob. When you've got a gal sucking your dick you feel ecstatic. she's doing everything under her power to give you utmost pleasure. A handjob on the other hand, is like pity. Like 'alright... let's get you off and continue with our day already.'

But the one thing I really don't like about handjobs... they almost always get at ya from some awkward angle, and there'll be that one pump of her wrist that hurts like hell. Fuck I hate that!