I actually thought Kaelynn's response was most interesting....the man she gave her virginity to did not end up being "the one" ~~ but since she analyzed the situation and made a considered decision, she had no regrets. If I were to craft the perfect sityuation for your lady, it would be mostly the same.

Everyone's journey is different. She needs to read books, maybe make a few online friends, ask questions....and then decide what she is comfortable with. You are merely along for the ride.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney