*Calm settles over the thread*

OK Mark...so you want to "guide" her? Give her all the pertinent info?

What is it she doesn't know?

I'm still thinking...she knows about all the technicalities...but she just doesn't feel sure that "it" is for her yet.

Hun...really...Go back and reread this entire thread. Especially dote on darogle's sincere reply. He's a really smart guy and wouldn't throw you a curve! I think you've dismissed his whole intention and focused on his "slot A" yada, yada...and didn't even get the analogy. Several peeps have told you similar things throughout this thread, but it seems you missed the points[s] from everyone.

Trust me...I KNOW how hard it is to get a point across in type. But truthfully...a lot of Pixies have made every effort to make the exact same point, just in different words, in this one thread alone...that even I now know how I will handle it if I encounter a reluctant virgin! LOL!

So really, go back...and then we can go forward! K?

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