I couldn't agree more with everything that's been said here. Having a new sexual experience of any kind, can challenge our perceptions of ourselves, others and therefore our own identity.

If you decide you do want to go there, I'd suggest sharing your fears with your man, and make sure that you're both clear that any party is free to back out at any time they feel the need, and any party can reserve the right to say 'no' to any particular act during the proceedings. If, when it comes to it, you don't feel comfortable with having intercourse with the lady in question, then so be it.

Good luck and remember: think carefully before making any decisions in life, but regret nothing. You can only make a decision based on the knowledge, experience and judgement you have at the present time, and if it turns out to be the 'wrong' one, then don't punish yourself with hindsight - you made the best decision you could based on the information available to you at the time.

(On a personal note, if you do decide to go ahead with it - dayum, she's a lucky girl! )

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