redhed40,

You are such a sweety to trust us to add insight to your internal fear. May I hug you?

((((((redhed40)))))) <----assuming you said yes...*giggle*

Ahhhhhhhhhh hun...firsts are always scary! Oh hell...the unknown is scary in ANY situation. It's not just sex...but all aspects of life! The advice given above is awesome! I am honored to be a member amoung such insightful people. Take heed! The PERFECT advice has been given and I can't add anymore but to say...

"If it does not kill us, it'll make us a better person"...for having the experience to compare the oranges to the apples!

And may I ask...

(assuming he says Yes again)...If you are "GAY" and no feeling to ever experiment "on the other side"...why would you choose a bi lover?

Oh...come on...like no one else wanted to ask!!!!!??????

Really hun...didn't the risk of him wanting a woman ever enter your head? Or...did you think you could "turn" him entirely?

Really, I am just curious...not scolding!

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~Thomas Dewar~