Please send me the video. I've not be a virgin for about 45 years, but still haven't learned everything...... I hope

Or is it just that I'm not 100% Spanish? lol


I had THE same talk with both my son and daughter at about 14. I DIDN'T tell them they would burst in flames. As a matter of fact, WHEN the time comes, it's going to be something pretty special. So special it will be something they remember the rest of their lives,..... as much as getting married or having babies. That IS one of the FEW things that can only happen ONCE! I can't tell them and I'm SURE a partner can't be the one to decide when it's RIGHT. "They", alone, and only "them", will know when it should happen. They each have responsibilities that WILL be there the day after. Some of them may be gender different, but they are going to be there. It's something SO good that it truly shouldn't have ANY bad points or second thoughts WHEN it's right for them. That's one of the ways they'll know when it's right

I'm sure my son is going to be having a talk with my granddaughter in a few years.

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So, PF, did oyu dread the TALK or was it something that oyu felt comfortable with?

...of course, all good advice.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Not at all. They weren’t brought up with any boogymen that would hit them with a bolt of lightening and was always thought that there was no magic to make something right. Magic only exists until you know how it works. Then it was just a mystery. So the concept of responsibility wasn’t quite so new to a kid.

Like all parents, we drew it as we built it. We always answered question but never any that weren’t asked. Because of the weird way we had brought them up, it was just kind of natural and not a lot awkwardness on either side.

(and I do know that we just got lucky. got a couple good kids but I know it would be different if I had to do it again. [I truly believe in there not being any “magic answers”])

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