I think if he's not comfortable discussing his sexuality with you, he may be very uncomfortable to find that you've been discussing it with a whole load of strangers.

Whether you like it or not, you need to bite the bullet and talk to him face to face about how is apparent lack of caring about your sex life is making you feel. He may feel hurt and betrayed to find that you've discussed it here first before he was even aware of the problem.

Talk to him about it, and if he doesn't listen, or take it to heart, try again in different ways until he gets the message.

When I was a young teenager (and a virgin) I would always read in teen magazines etc that if you're not mature enough to handle a face to face conversation with your partner about sex/contraception etc that you're not mature enough to handle actually having sex. Whenever I feel shy about discussing something sexual with my partner, I remind myself of that....I'm a grown woman, who's intimate with my partner, why on earth should I be shy about talking about what we do between the sheets? Just something you might want to bear in mind to help you keep some perspective.

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