Awwwww sweety! You....in any way, shape or form....are a beautiful person!

BTW ((((Tess)))).....your clothes aren't funny....but rather.....some are prettier than my stuff! Grrrrrrrrrr! LOL!

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~Thomas Dewar~

Red or yellow or black or white all are precious in our sight.

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Hey Tess... glad to see you took that step. Btw, your clothes aren't any funnier than some of mine. Matter of fact, I bet some of the things I wear are downright ridiculous compared to your wardrobe.

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Clever? Nah, I ran out of that years ago. But if you find this, let me know, k?
"The road goes ever on..." ~ Tolkien

In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these

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"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."
- Albert Einstein (1879-1955)

"God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh."
- Voltaire (1694-1778)

"I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them."
- Ian L. Fleming (1908-1964)

as a bi guy i can understand the stigma of being differant from
what other people think is normal and am happy that you feel
confident about who you are and how you feel about you
and remember the gay bi lesbians have the transgenderd
to thank because they started the pride marches and the whole
sexuality equality movement
from a new freind

Thanks for sharing, Tess. You certainly are right about the importance of friendship and support. I wish you and your support network well.

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Glad to see you are still with us .... in the way you feel most comfortable!!

Way to go Tess! If only the rest of the world could be as accepting and understanding as Pixies. I've wrestled with transgender for many confusing years. Growing up and being made to feel freakish for my feelings. It's tough out there for someone who doesn't fit the standard mould.

But age brings peace and calm to that turmoil. I accept all the varied aspects of my personality. I realised that no-one fits a standard mould. We're all unique lovely and loving people.

Tess - thank you for sharing that with us. I can't imagine what you have been going through internally over the years. I can imagine you've had some relief.

I've known that I'm bi-curious for most of my life. I did have an experience with a friend of mine when I was 16. Long story short, I wasn't mature enough to handle what we did. For a while, I was wondering about crossdressing. I tried on a pair of panties and basically decided that it wasn't for me.

To help me get past the "stigma" of being bi curious, many of my fantasies involve being with a m to f TG. (Yes, I know I'm just adding to the stigma...) Basically, although I don't enjoy the dressing, I enjoy seeing it.

Congrats!

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WTG Tess! If you're ever in T.O., we'll hook up and spend some tmie in gay village, a wonderfully friendly, accepting place to be.