Normaly when I get it she comes first

I have this werid deal with condoms. Can't feel a dang thing, so she ends up coming before me. :redghost:

I would like to think we cum together, but it is only 50% of the time that happens. I'll never cum first if it's just penetrative sex, I must have lots of foreplay and oral. That's what gets me to my orgasm.

Twisted always makes sure I cum at least once before we do together(we usually do). I know that I am spoiled.... I ususally have several orgasms before he does, but that is the way he likes it. I have to agree with Steph... selfless men are better in bed.

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She does 90% of time. I really enjoy feeling her cum, she usually gets 1-2 or 3 etc, I have had a mega shag fest where I got her to orgasm 11 times. Love eating her pussy, love sucking her nipples to orgasm. If I come first I feel drained but I always do all I can to get her to Nirvana.

When I had a boyfried he always came first between my cheeks.

A.

It always used to be that I came first - lack of control being the main problem, especially with a new partner. Now I try and either cum with her or shorlty afterwards.

However, as Lady Tango said, it helps to get Buckslady worked up with a lot of oral and finger foreplay, then when I penetrate, her clit is already highly stimulated.

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I hate cumming before the woman does. I usually eat my way to her orgasm a few times then poke her good until she cums again Control is the key

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My DW is soooo sensitive, she usually comes just as I'm penetrating....then 4 or 5 times before I get there, and then 2 or 3 more while i'm just resting there, inside her, feeling her pussy spasm around my wilting member.

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she does without a doubt!

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Honestly it depends on how long it has been since I've had an orgasm last. My penis will be especially sensitive if it's been a long time and therefore it's more difficult to control things. My S/O usually climaxes first, in ideal circumstances.

My wife is usually incapable of vaginal orgasms! Which of course means more joy for me as I get to eat her to make her cum BEFORE intercourse. The feeling inside a just-cummed woman is HEAVEN!!!

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South Asia: Expensive DSL and sex is HIGHLY under-rated here--as well as concealed! But still a nice place to be!

Effect of Women!

Actually, we generally come just about at the same time--the movements she makes as she comes will generally drive me over the edge. Also, she likes it vigorous as she comes which also is likely to push me over the edge.


As to the earlier poster who feels that many of the men on here are lying--a lot of it comes down to what you do to her. If you have sex like in a porno movie you aren't going to last very long and she's probably going to be far from orgasm when you blow.
Instead, we have two basic actions: A gentle thrusting that doesn't really involve the traditional in-out movement. I remain basically fully penetrated but alter how I'm pressed against her. It's not as intense as traditional sex but I'd much prefer 20 or 30 minutes this way to a few the traditional way.
The other thing we do is a very slow full stroke, taking perhaps 10-15 seconds to fully withdraw and reinsert, then often remaining pressed against her for another 5-10 seconds as she bucks from the intensity.

My GF and I don't have full intercourse because she won't until she's married... so it's just limited to hand/fingers and oral. I pretty much take care of her first because she seems to like it that way. I wonder if that takes care of all her enthusiasm since she seems kinda straight-forward on satisfying me... no teasing or anything. When I don't get her off first she often gives more effort....

You mean that someones supposed to come?No wonder;we always get so frustrated;during sex;and avoid it;if possible.Our
daughters(2);were concieved;by immaculate conception! Irish

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We usually have what I call vessel sex. He cums, he's done. End of story.

No wonder I now have more toys than will fit in my toy box.

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Id say my SO and are about 50-50, however when i do come first she is ussually close and i can ussually keep it for 5 to 10 minutes

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