Can believe I've never answered this one. From the ones I can remember it's 16.

I'm sure I answered this one years ago too.

I lost count at 30.

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I've had a few, but only two that counted in the big picture.

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

(One of them is the father of my children, and the other will be coming home to me tonight and every night. He's also the best Dad I've ever known, to his own kids as well as to mine )

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

Hi Flutelady............. say hi to Denny!!!!

I've had a few..................

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My Only Two Stories Anywhere!

Afternoon Delight

Delightful Rendezvous!

Is the love I gave her in the past, gonna be enough to last, if tomorrow never comes........

Hi there Coaster, New Years hugs for you and your honey!

You want I should give Denny a kiss for ya?

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~

Was just discussing this with friends on New Year's Eve. Been stuck on eight for a bit. Only one of those was a one night stand (about 13 yrs ago) and I'm still kicking myself to this day for letting myself do that.

Now if we're expanding the count to include all around messing around and not just intercourse I'd say about 23 (Hey, that number was good enough for Ryne Sandberg and Michael Jordan, may as well let it work for me too). I have a tendency to find myself very very happy to spend a few hours going down on a lady and then not getting around to actually having intercourse with her. Oh god, it doesn't get better than that......... but that's another story for another time.

Either way you count 'em, it's been way too long since I've had a sexual partner. And would love to add to my number in hopes of finding that one special lady who will make the tally stop permanently. So, any of you single Pixies ladies that think you'd want to see if you're "the one" I'll more than likely be hanging out in the smut games with dicksbro and jseal.

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No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

Counting strictly intercourse, there have been 9.

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I have had the pleasure of having intercourse with 5 beautiful ladies.

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Nora Ephron

“Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.”
Barbara Bush

"You know that look women get when they want sex? Me neither!"
Drew Carey

I am a little unhappy seeing this thread again.
But time moves on, and so have I.
This is going to provoke comment, and so be it.
It really matters not one wit to me if you think these are accurate numbers, but I KNOW they are the result of my best efforts.
So I have sat here for some time, sipping my pinot noir, (about 4 glasses worth) and I am feeling resolved.
I am drunk, and therefore brave. (Mary Kay Place)

After all, I chose my life, and I revel in it. I love having sex, and have no issues internally with it, I just hate to actually set down the numbers for others to see.

(Last time I got nervous, and editied the entry, putting in ** where I had put numbers, but now I am older, more educated (YES!), and maybe a tiny bit more mature, sexually.

Besides, I suspect there is an emotional catharsis to come from this.

Sooooooooo...

Disclaimer; all numbers are at best educated guesses, with lots and lots of overlaps. I mean, most of the time I fuck a guy the "regular" way before we do anal. (though there are exceptions *smile*)

Oral sex, giving and receiving, (to orgasm, not brief sucks as a prelude to more intense things) over 400. (that is an honest, if a tiny bit conservative, guestimate)
Manual sex, receiving, (being fingered, fingering, and other forms of genital stimulation, such as handjobs) about 150.

Anal Sex: (yum) about 30, which includes about 15 double penetrations.
(You thought it would be more, didn't you. I am very selective about who gets to go there)

There are some practices that are hard to classify, including variations on frottage, such as lap dances that resulted in one of us orgasming, booby fucking (not too much, as I am woefully underdeveloped in that area) various fettish encounters, and some extreme practices such as bukkake and its' variations. So, I will say maybe 70-100.

OK...
Vaginal intercourse: I'm guessing, but due to a HUGE change in lifestyle, (attending "swinger" and BDSM parties, and yes, I finally took the plunge, so this number is including some truly fantastic gangbangs) more than 350.

God, it feels so good to finally do this!

Let the insults come, I 'm ready!!!

"slut", (yes, so what?) "whore" "cunt" "nymphomaniac" "sex addict"

I have been called all of the above since I discovered sex, and while I am happy to be a slut, I am none of the rest. I have a therapist who says so.
I mean, I have issues, (issues? fuck, I have a whole subscription!!) But I am NOT a "whore", (not in the business of providing sex for money.) I HAVE a cunt. Doesn't mean I AM one, (I don't particularly care for that term, I prefer "pussy" "twat" or the more medically acurate "vagina")

My therapist says I am not a nymphomaniac. Or a sex addict.

So pooh on you who have problems with my life and they way I live it.

"I have a life, not a lifestyle" (George Carlin)

"Going to go nap for a little bit." (Ronald Regan)

Bye bye

Linda

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So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

Linda -

Life's fun is in the journey...not counting up the final tally. Who cares? As long as you had fun, it's all good. Your sexiness is part of what makes you, you.

((((Linda)))))

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I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

WW,

to each their own. In truth I jealous, I thought I had a wild youth in the '60s & early '70s, then I found someone to share life with. It did not stop all the fun, but it did slow it way down when the children arrived. So don't worry about what others think, just enjoy life as it comes.

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Could someone please tell me why everytime I post, it more or less kills the thread?

By the way, it's 352 as of this morning.



Remember that's a guess, more or less, based on more than a few sort of confused memories, and remember, there is a HUGE overlap here. I mean, don't add up all the numbers and expect to see how many sexual partners I have had. I have probably slept with a guy before I let him try anal.
Most of the time, anyway.
Lots of "just blow jobs" there though. Some women, (and some men, I hear) don't count thoses as sex...
Anyway, this is just a fucking educated guess. (sorry couldn't resist a little "morning after" humor). I have recently realized that as I get older, and continue my active sexual life, the sheer weight of numbers is going to add up. I mean, anal sex for example. This means that since I discovered anal I have had a new partner have anal with me on the average of slightly less than twice a year.

I really felt the need to set this down. It might have been better, though, if I had been less inebriated.
I apologize to all my Pixie's friends for the rude attittude I expressed. I have had a few relationship strains recently, especially with the "other" gender.
*sigh*

WW

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

---Margaret Cho

Nope, thread not killed honey. I think most of us just took time away from this one to try and figure out a way to get to you so we could possibly add to the number in what would most certainly be one of the most memorable experiences of our lives. That's what I was doing anyway. My plan is to get you up here to help me supervise the floor refinishing.

Yup, getting a bit light headed from the blood (and thus oxygen) rushing from my head just thinking about your 3 way. Hmmmmm, what a great way to start my day.

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It takes a gutless mouse to play only when the cat's away.

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. ~~ Francois Mocuriac

Confucius say, "He who masturbate into cash register come into money."

An optimist looks at the glass and says it's half full. A pessimist looks at the glass and says it's half empty. A Cubs fan looks at the glass and says, "When's it gonna spill?"

Deus Impetitio Esuritori Nullus

WW

I feel we have to keep posting what we think/feel/wish/do, otherwise we're self-censoring, and all we show is a shadow of ourselves.

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