09-23-2008, 04:12 PM
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I am vain. SURPRISE!!! I have donated my hair twice but know I would have trouble dealing with the loss of it too. Did you take pics??? When it comes back it will most likely be different from what I have heard.
I told you I would sacrifice myself and do your hubby for you. I'm a giver 
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09-23-2008, 04:39 PM
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*sniff* that's an awesome thought!
we did take a pic! we have a silly after pic planned as well.
gg - you're durn right it's better than cancer....
most stuff is.  |
09-23-2008, 11:24 PM
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Turn it up!
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Originally Posted by wyndhy
and i still have my hair! but i suspect it will be gone in about a week. which, i admit, i don't know how i'll feel about. i handled being suddenly boobless pretty well already so i figure the hair should be easy. then again it's so ... right there.
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Hey,I really think bald chicks are hot, too...well, maybe not so much Sinead O'Conner, but even she has that somethin-somethin going on...
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09-24-2008, 01:55 AM
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Hair is just stuff. What defines you is *you* -- which is a pretty damn awesome mother, wife, and friend. I love that you're fighting cancer and winning.
But I sure hope the next few weeks fly by. 
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09-24-2008, 05:28 AM
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Just me.
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Osuche is right. You;re super, wyndhy ... with or without hair. We just want the cancer gone for good so you can catch up and pass jseal in the posting count. 
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09-24-2008, 08:47 AM
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pixie of the wood
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lol, db. fat chance, but i will have time for a bit more smut-gaming. 
i love you guys. (((hugs)) and thanks
i have a quick thought i wanna share.
i've had a couple messagesfrom pixies saying that they are thinking of me, but feel bad or guilty or unsure of posting here. i know this sucks. cancer sucks. that's all there is to it. it's hard and it's hard on your friends and family. it's even hard on people you've "never" met. i'm here to say DO NOT feel bad if you've had the same thought. you don't have to PM or post here or do anything that you don't want to, but don't think for a second that just because i don't hear from you personally, or that because you don't post here, that i think that means you don't care. this thread isn't here for me to keep shoving all this cancer crap down your throats, or to garner hugs (or pity) when i post updates. it's the opposite. it's just to keep you in the loop, so to speak, exactly because i know many of you do care.  |
09-24-2008, 01:22 PM
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And that ^^^ is why we love you so much, & why so many of us do care...
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09-27-2008, 10:23 AM
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pixie of the wood
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aw shucks. get goin'
treatment #2 is over. WOOT! two nasties down, two to go. i cut out the dexamethasone. feeling less drugged, more nauseous, and a few other things are a bit worse without the steroid to help control them. totally tolerable so far, though.
my hair is coming out like crazy. started yesterday morning. we're gonna do the shaving ceremony today or tomorrow. all will be present. hubby and son wanna shave too. oldest daughter does locks of love so she's abstaining. and the baby's already bald.
oh! and my pubes are falling out too. ya know the expression snatched bald?.... 
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09-27-2008, 11:40 AM
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Well, that's one bennie. You get to skip the razor burn for a while.
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09-27-2008, 01:41 PM
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My intern has no eyebrows either. It's sort of Whoopi Goldberg-ish.
Your cancer (or currently lack there of) has nothing to do with why the peeps here love and respect you. You garnered those feelings from people long before cancer interupted your plans. What cancer does though, is scares people. Cancer is non-discriminatory and therefore a fear we all share.
I'm sorry you are losing your hair. I am sorry you lost your boobies. But I am happy that both can be replaced in one way or another. You will have to be the judge on whether or not it was a price worth paying to be cancer free. I'm sure your family (the one here too) is grateful you are strong willed and determined enough to go through this in order to give them more time with you. I know I am.
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09-27-2008, 06:18 PM
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I love your kick ass 'tude
I will love you here or there, I will love you anywhere
I have nearly 3 feet of purple red hair hanging around on my noggin--you want it?
Hey, I'll even shave my pussy bald for you *grabs big grey cat* oh, wait wrong pussy.
In 6th grade, I shaved off my eyebrows and my mom had to teach me to pencil in my eyebrows until they grew back otherwise I'd look like Bozo. It worked for a while and no one noticed until a few days later I gave myself a hugh bruise on my forehead from a large suction cup. Then everyone noticed my bruise and lack of real eyebrows and was the laughing stock of the school for quite a while.
---Moral of the story--don't give yourself a forehead hickey whilst you are sans eyebrows.
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09-27-2008, 06:46 PM
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aw shucks. get goin'
treatment #2 is over. WOOT! two nasties down, two to go. i cut out the dexamethasone. feeling less drugged, more nauseous, and a few other things are a bit worse without the steroid to help control them. totally tolerable so far, though.
my hair is coming out like crazy. started yesterday morning. we're gonna do the shaving ceremony today or tomorrow. all will be present. hubby and son wanna shave too. oldest daughter does locks of love so she's abstaining. and the baby's already bald.
oh! and my pubes are falling out too. ya know the expression snatched bald?.... |
When all this is over, keep the baldie and get some righteous tattoos on your back and arms. Preferably full-sleeves. Dress in denims and leathers and cutoffs with patterned pantyhose more often. You'll rock bad-girl sexiness and not just because your hoo-hoo is silky smooth.
So sexy being bald. And I'm not just saying this to be glib, I've always felt this way, even before the alt-porn craze!
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09-28-2008, 12:28 AM
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09-28-2008, 12:29 AM
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Call me FWM :)
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I love your kick ass 'tude
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I love that you're fighting cancer and winning.
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 Totally in awe of how positive you're being, Wyndhy 
There's a female TV presenter in the UK ( Gail Porter). She lost all her hair suddenly and without warning to alopecia. Her attitude to the hair loss totally kicks ass, and I love what her boyfriend at the time is said to have said:
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“When I lost my hair, James was amazing. He said, "So what? You still have your face, your heart and all the important things."
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Wyndhy, I wish you all the best for the remainder of your treatment and will continue to keep you in my thoughts whilst you fight this |
09-29-2008, 08:08 AM
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pixie of the wood
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oh man i am laughing so hard.
i think i'll skip the tats (and the purple-y hair ) but i'll keep the 'tude. 
you guys are the best! thanks for the support and the chuckles. (((huge hugs))) |
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