I have a couple of online communities. Hubby knows that one of them is a sex-site-type. It's really not his "thing". I pretty much only come here when he's not around, more from not being able to stand someone over my shoulder when I'm message-boarding than to hide it from him. That's true of most of my computer time, though, and not just about pixie's. Unless he's got something else occupying his time, I tend to try and hang out with him and the baby over being online