i've been reading threads and a lot of people talk about what thier spouse, whoever, thought about this n that. does anyone keep thier involment with pixies, et al, a secret from thier spouses? cause i do. it's not that my hubby would mind, probably the opposite, i'm just too shy to cop. am i the only one?

My ex wife didnt know, my current SO is a member...depends on the person I guess.

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I have fessed up, but he absolutely HATES the site. <sigh>

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hubby knows, didnt think it was fair to post naked pics of him if he didnt know LMAO

~nikki

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wyndhy,

My wife is an occassional poster. Just to keep tabs on me is my guess.

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Obviously, my SO is a member.

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Mine knows, but doesn't do really anything on any computer. Wish she did.

My S/O knows as does my boyfriend.....

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My hubby knows, but he prefers AA. Why, I'll never know. I did intially hide my sites from him, just because I wasn't sure how he'd react. That was years ago now, and I can't even recall how I let him in on it, or if he found it, or what. Odd.

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Mine knows, he is the one that actually introduced me to the site. He isn't very active since he no longer works for "the man", and isn't stuck in front of a computer anymore. But I do give him tips on photos and other threads I've enjoyed, and I know he gets on from time to time to see what is going on. He also will comment every now and then about something I posted or said here, so I know he is watching....So baby, get going would you and post some more pics...You are way over due

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Never say never, but if you do it's okay to change your mind~me, I think

Yes he is.... mmmmmm more soon please!!!

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The practice of putting women on pedestals began to die out when it was discovered that they could give orders better from there.~ Betty Grable

If I wanted your opinion, I'd remove the duct tape and ask you for it.~ Me
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One man's dream is another man's nightmare~~~~> §¤ Lilith ¤§
~>My Scribbles<~
==>Gone Shopping<== ~Just a Quickie~ *~A Celebration Vacation~* ~Surprises~ Sleeping With the Window Open
What Did You Do Today? Self Defense Class ~Short Sweet Snippets~ § Summer Spin § Story Challenge Submission Pajamas

My hubby into'd me and he is a lurker member...which means he knows just about everything I do on here. Notice the operative words, "just about".......*giggle*

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My hubby knows about Pixies but isn't interested in spending time here. I've had him look at threads that I thought were particularly good, And I've told him about others. I talk about fellow Pixies sometimes and tell him funny or interesting things you've said. Grumble is staying at our home on his trip..... still find it hard to believe hubby agreed to it! He doesn't object to me being a member, he just says I spend to much time on the computer. So Pixies is not a secret, but I'll admit that some of what I do & say on here and one special person are a secret. So I'm just as glad he's not a member.

My wife knows about Pixies. She's helped me take a few pictures and has seen my threads as well as some others I've steered her to. I'm not sure if she's ever posted an replies under my name though. It's not really her bag.

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