So I get these kind notes here and there from folks, or take a shine to something someone says in a thread, and I get a notion to look this person up and see what I can learn about them. Imagine my disappointment to see a blank profile. Boo. Hoo.

Now, I understand a person's desire for discretion in a place such as this, but for the love of all that's good and unholy, is gender and birthdate (not day, date) too much to ask?

I'd like to know if you're a he, a she, or some combo thereof. And I try to avoid robbing the cradle too much, but I haven't been entirely successful. Hell, I'd even be thrilled with a polite "woman of a certain age" or "distinguished gentleman."

As for the rest, it's nice to know if someone's in your neck of the woods, and what they like, and what have you, so you might strike up a conversation with him/her.

So I guess I'm asking for folks to reconsider their empty profiles.

Anyone else feel this way, or am I just too frickin' nosy? (The answer could well be both--I fully admit to the latter failing.)

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