I am sorry guy's but I am going to have to dissagree with you all. Personally from my own experiences with my current partner ( as u may see by my post's ) I do consider it to be cheating.

But as what point of sex talk or flirting harmlessly and as was meantioned, how do you know when you have crossed the line??
I have had a few debate with other Pixies mebers about this and at the end of the day I beleive that it's no right, it is wrong of a s/o to flirt with another member of the oppisite sex, but at the same time, I do not consider it so dreadfully harmful to be considered cheating

In regards to talking about sex with the oppisite sex. There are two roads that this topic could go down. As, for example in my situation with my partner and the troub;e I was having wih him, I beleive that have a general sex chat with a member of the oppisite sex is harmless and there is nothing to it, but at the same time I beleive that the line is crossed when one party starts going into intimate details of there body, sexual fantasies and to the endless point in where in becomes into cyber/phone sex. Now I beleive that, that is cheating.

I also beleive that when your s/o is talking with another person about sex I do not beleive that it is right for your s/o to go into details of your own sex life for example, what positions do you do?, fave positions? I don't beleive that is cheating but at the same time, I do not approve of it.