I danced very briefly, actually a week. I gave a few lapdances. The guys never masturbated during the dances, and I doubt that that was permitted, though I'm not sure. I danced completely nude and they could touch me anywhere but down below. Although, there was a certain guy who would always try to get away with touching the girls wherever he pleased.

I'd love to know where I can sign up to take an erotic dance class!

Sal, what's wrong with your SO? He sounds just like my almost-ex-husband. Never had a clue what he was missing because he just wasn't interested. Kick his ass for me and tell him to wise up!

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It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


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Yes Virginia there is etiquette to lap dances, not that I would know mind you!

Does it really count though when your S/O does it for you as opposed to a total stranger? The anticipation with your S/O has to be totally different doesn't it? At least then you know what the boundaries are (or are not).

I think there is a difference and thankfully so!

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Never confuse stripper with hooker. You'll see a lot of high rollers at the clubs who believe that they can get anything they want for the money. When I went to the club I know a guy spent about $1200 on lapdances from a stripper. One of her co-workers said that he offer her another $800 for a blow job. The place wasn't one of those low-rent places either.

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Deep into that darkness peering,
long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
no mortal ever dreamed before.

pssst flutelady ... http://www.frommindtobody.com/ this one may be in your area. A it different than the one I was looking at but feel free to take a peek.

I don't know what's wrong with him and I think if i got into it hear it would really take this tread off topic.

I could make a list of things I've tried and don't think he'll ever wise up. Good advice nonetheless. Thank you.

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Thank you Magalicious - nice to hear a first hand account.

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