I have had my penis pierced, (a PA) and my wife had her labia pierced and I can tell you that soaking the piercing in sea salt and warm water daily helps alot. Also, wash the piercing in a good antibacterial soap like liquid dial. When washing the piercing, it is good to lather it up and move it as much as possible. Dead skin cells will build up and need removed daily. The cells will form a white looking crust on your jewlery. It will probably take a month or so for all the dead cells to leave your body. Also, very important- Do Not lick her nipples until they are completely healed. You could infect them if you do this. One other thing, I sure hope your jewlery is a good surgical steel metal, not gold. Gold is not good for piercings. After you start to feel comfortable with the healing, feel free to move your piercing as much as possible. This will help stretch the hole good and will make it easier to advance up to the next size of jewlery if you wish to. Hope this helps and if you need anymore info feel free to ask me. Go Browns, it's a new year