ok well i've had anal sex with my boyfriend probably 4 good times the last time we lubed my ass with lotion and i did ok with it because the other times were just nerve wracking i like it and i can do it but is there any tips to make it alittle bit easier while going in?? My boyfriend says i to keep doing it frequently that way it'll stretch....also it throbs and i get alittle bleeding is that ok??? thanks guys your a big help MUAH xoxoxoxo