I definitely like to stop or change positions so that I can tease him longer. Apparently my guy is into the bum smacking, so I'll usually just give him a good smack and that's the end of him On the other hand, with oral there are a lot of unspoken options like looking up into his eyes just before taking him all the way in and working my tongue around the head of his cock. He loves those 3.

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I am certain of nothing but the holiness of the heart's affections and the truth of imagination. What the imagination seizes as beauty must be truth - whether it existed before or not.
-John Keats