I forgot to mention that if you try to pressure her into this there's a good chance you will lose her. It only makes sense that if you care, you care about her completely.....her thoughts, beliefs, morals, etc.

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Ahhh, Mercury_Maniac. ………………… I know where you can get some of those if you need them.

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AV not to worry I am not pressuring her. I am merely gathering info and advice for her. So she can make her own decission.

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Well well, now this thread is starting to really gather some momentum. Keep it coming people.

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I didn't think that I would come back here either, but I have a personal experience, or journey if you will, that I want to share with you Mark that I hope will maybe have you understand her relunctance or "block" as you call it and the curiosity.

When I married Cobalt I was ignorant and a prude about certain aspects of sexuality or "kink" as some call it here . He, being a very sexual person, exposed me to many different ideas and I did explore them through reading, internet and books, because I was curious. However, my level of curiosity didn't match my comfort level. Because of a past relationship, I was totally against porn (mags, vids, etc.) He wanted to discuss what I was discovering because it interested him. At times, I felt as if he were pushing me to try things out and I wasn't really sure if I was ready or interested. I needed my time alone to discover if I was interested in trying some things, I needed to gather the information at my own speed without him trying to give me the information from his perspective. At times I felt pushed into things that I wasn't sure I was comfortable with in order to please him. His persistence (in my mind and in his he was only helping me over my block) at times made me mad and I would go into the "damned if I will do it for you" mode.

What he did do eventally, after I explained to him what I was feeling, was leave me alone about my explorations. He lets me find things, "research" and then if I am interested I bring it up. He does occassionally bring up an idea or shows me something on the internet that interests him, but he leaves it up to me to decide if I want to explore that.

He doesn't have a mission to give me all the information, or to help me over my hump or increase my comfort level. He lets me do that. And that is what I suggest you do with your friend. Give her the places, books, mags, where the information is at and let her explore on her own and explore alone where she isn't hovered over. Let her discover for herself and satisfy her own curiosity by herself for now. Oh, you can be there if she has questions, but just answer the question or perhaps point her to a source for information.

Does she have her own internet connection? If she does, just give her this site address and let her explore it on her own by herself for now without hovering over her or being in the same place as she is. Let her grow on her own, but be there for her when she has questions.

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Thanks Chey. Well I am doing that as well. I have given her various sites to check out. I gave her pixies but she didn't have a look. She may have in her own time. Maddy gave me a good link that I sent to her. She had a look and found it helpful.

From what she has told me already, she wants to try a coulple of small things first before she goes any further. Baby steps. Now of course I am listening to her and just holding her hand for any support she may need.

I can also understand how overwhelming her with too much can get on her case. As it is, she is actually taking it all in good stride.

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Awesome. Give her info on what she asks about and go at her pace. Good luck with your relationship!

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Thanks AV. I'll keep it in mind. The good thing is she is willing to try things. Now at her pace and when she is ready of course. So I'm just hanging on for the ride (so to speak). It will be an interesting time for her. I also get a sneaking suspicion that when she is ready I'll be the first to know.

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Mark...AV has good advice and she puts it in writing well.

Mae, I realise that. I am just waiting for anymore advice to float through here.

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I just wanted to say thank you to all the pixies who have put their view across on this sensitive and often touchy subject.

I have heeded the advice that all of you have said and will put it to good use at the correct time.

So again......thank you all.

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