I have had in the past "old reliables" who chose to remain friends and still gave passionately. Alas that was a long time ago and now all I have is a right one and a left one and they're here all day every day but they lack so much in the ability to make small talk after.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

Yes......years ago. I would go to his house at any hour I got the urge and he would open his door and his arms wide! He couldn't come to my place cause at the time I lived with my mother still. Oh....the memories!

*Special Note* I talk to ya after your through there Bear! *

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

~Filling in the form in triplicate~

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Strength in depth

I believe your most attractive features are your heart and soul

Oh damn Lixxy, that's enough to start me over... Mmmmmmmm

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery

I had one in my youth. We had gone to school together but nothing had ever happened then. About a year after we graduated, we ran into each other at the mall one night, got to talking and eventually ended up in bed. Neither of us had planned on it or expected it...it just hapened. For several years after that, anytime one of us was lonely or without an SO, we would get together for some wonderful sex. It was great because we both knew that we were both clean, safe and discreet and there were absolutly no strings attached. Our liasons ended when I got engaged and was no longer in need of my fuck buddy. It turns out that he got married shortly after I did so it would have ended anyway. I see him every now and again because he manages a store that I frequent.

About every three months, I have to travel to the Chicago area for business. The lobby receptionist in the office building I visit has become my four-a-year buddy. We've probably gotten busy twenty or more times, and I swear I don't ever recall hearing her last name! Mind-blowing sex, though. Quite the buddy.

I find the fuck buddy is good for emotional support as well as mind-blowing sex. I have two of them... The first I lost my virginity to when I was 13 (and we're still like rabbits 13 years later). The other one is a co-worker who lives in Atlanta and we get together about 4 times per year.

I'm close with both and they provide emotional support as well as ...support of a more physical kind.

I would highly recommend you find one...but seek someone who is giving, not jealous, and good in bed. It makes sense to plan for the long haul. :-)

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

I'm still wondering where I can go to get one signed up

Ever meet someone and you just "click"??? That's the perfect fuck buddy. Just don't set their expectations on life-long relationships..

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Been a loooong time since I had a fuckbuddy. Just been me and Mrs R for the past 15 years.

Those days were sure fun, though!





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Variation on the fuckbuddy...

What about continuing this type of relationship while having a b/f or husband (or wife, g/f)? How did it work out?

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

Hmmmmmm! Hubby says I can't date anymore osuche! WTF is that all about? LOL!

To answer that one though....No.....not yet! I'm trying to get him to meet me though! I'lll keep ya posted!



OMG! What did I just say?

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~

Doesn't sound like you properly instructed him, Lixy...keep workin' on him and good luck!

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

i have absolutely nobody,

no one in the whole wide world

probably never will

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hungry? why wait.....eat me.

MM - Cheer up! Look at Pixies as a great opportunity to become educated in the ways of sex so that you're ready to knock her socks off when you finally do find the right gal.

Negativity is often a self-fulfilling prophesy. Also, sex is a BIG DEAL and can be emotionally stressful. You may be better off without....

Sometimes I think so myself...and wish I had waited.

If you want to talk about it or get advice, IM me or send an e-mail. Be happy to be a sympathetic ear.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney