rzande...I seldom give advice, but why not just take a deep breath, sit back, relax, play it cool, and let this all play out a bit. Soon you'll figure out what way to proceed. Life's too short to try to figure out what she may or may not be thinking, planning, or wanting or to stew about what she has said or done in the past. I imagine you already went down that road a bit as you were splitting up.

HAHAHA, had an ex exactly like that... She still is...

Every so often, she comes back into my life saying that she made mistakes and to see each other, then go cold again... I just say hi, ask how things are...

and if she asks to meet up, I say "yeah, no problem", then wait for the "oh, I can't make it" text...

Well i dont care about her anymore. I got a date today!!!!